Its Been A Long Time...

yes - we've already established...I'm a bad blogger. Its who I am. You either love me or you decide it is one of those things that you just can't live with.... I understand if you leave me for it...

So...that's actually a good idea for a blog - what are those things that you just can't live with in your friends - or for that matter - future 'mate' - what are the deal breakers?